Well, I must say it has been a heck of a weekend. Yesterday I wrote about starting over and today I definitely am in that same frame of mind. I do not like to write about depressing things but just to get it off my chest I need to tell you about my weekend.
First of all, it started raining Friday night and did not stop until today (actually this afternoon) here in Elgin, Illinois. I know many of you have had the same weather that we have. Well, with it raining for almost 36 hours it decided to come in my house, basically it made the basement its destination. But, it did not want to leave this time. I say this time because just in the last month or since sometime in August, my basement has become a friend to the rain water three (at least, I believe three) times. I did have a flood once last year and that was a whopper. They said that what happened last August, 2007 was a first and probably would never happen again in the next ten years. I should have known better. What happens once is going to happen again. At least the other times the water decided to bail out on its own. Not this time. We even got a Shop Vac to help get the water up but it does not seem to be working. Anyway, hopefully our Public Works Department can come out and help us tomorrow morning.
I am starting to think we might have some other kind of a leak in the basement and that is why the water is not going down this time. I hope not because that means I will have to get something fixed which will cost money I do not have.
This house has been a thorn in my side ever since we moved here. Not little things going wrong. Always something major. Buying this house is the worst decision I have ever made. It actually was a decision I should never have made at the time that I did. My life partner, Michael, had just passed away from a brain aneurysm which we never saw coming. Because we were not married, though we had been together for approximately 17 years, the house went to his brother, who by the way, did not even know how to say my name correctly after all those years. He had not spoken to his brother and brother’s family for almost three years because of a dispute after their mother and father had died.
Michael was the most generous, most loving and caring man I ever knew. He was also one of the most giving people I have ever had the privilege to know and be close to. My daughter loved him as if he were her biological father (as her real father has died when she was quite young). Actually, he was more of a father to her and more of a partner to me than most husbands and fathers are to their own families.
Anyway, to finish this weekend off, we did go to Church this morning. But we ended up with a flat tire from a nail being embedded in the tire, had to call AAA to come and change the tire as we did not have the right jack to use.
I was supposed to go to work but decided to call in so I could try to help clear up the mess in the basement which did not happen. I know, yes I do work on Sundays sometimes.
Okay, so tomorrow is Monday and I have a whole lot of things to do, calls to make and then I still have to go to work. But I am going to stay optimistic now that I have complained about this weekend to anyone who will read this. I don’t blame if you skipped over most of it.
How about anyone giving me any advice, opinions, support? I would appreciate any words of encouragement in this stressful time. I do so want to make my life a happier and healthier one. I know many of my problems I have brought on myself but the rain is not one of them.
Tomorrow, instead of just going on about my life’s trials and tribulations, I am going to begin a journey of where the Internet is going these days. WE definitely have a few Super Stars in our midst and I hope to be able to give you some idea of what they are doing right now.
Thanks for listening.
Make Life a Great Journey.